At the end of the night, Mike invited me back to his place to chill. One Friday after work, a group of us stopped by a local watering hole to tie a few on. On the job, I got to know one of the guys who was a little older than me. “I was 21-years old and spent most of the summer working construction to make extra money for college. Remember, orientation is not always black or white. Our hope is to help men who are trying to come to terms with their sexuality. To gather their narratives, we asked the Guy Counseling community to come forward and share.įirst names are used to protect their identities. What follows are 25 first gay experiences stories as told by men who identify as straight. STRAIGHT MEN SHARE TRUE FIRST GAY EXPERIENCES Given interest in this topic, we thought it might be helpful to share some of these with readers.īelow is a podcast (E17) that features an email from a listener who identifies as straight but recently found himself attracted to another man at his gym. While many websites tend to eroticize such encounters, few offer first hand, true stories of these gay experiences. According to scientific research, something like 7-8% of men who identify as heterosexual has had some type of same sex-experience. Looking for first gay experiences stories? If so, you wouldn’t be alone.